My Fucking Mental Ex-Friends Part 1
Matthew Large / CinningBao (matthewlarge.com)
THEFT OF MY EQUIPMENT – OFFICIAL PIG REPORT
- theft of computer equipment (SSD drives)
- refusal to pay back any money that was “borrowed” with no actual intention to pay it back
- treatment that amounts to torture which has affected me every day for over a year rendering me entirely unable to complete basic tasks
After another distressing communication today where Mr Large has deflected and abused me yet again, I have decided to report this to the pigs. His address is unknown, he has refused to give it multiple times. Also refused any address for who received my property (his brother called “Boots”.) The only information i have about him is this number: 07736 448 808 and that my equipment was taken to his brothers in Milton Keynes.
Throughout our relationship Mr Large has completely ignored my communication needs, which i spelled out very early to him as i do to everyone i know. Because of these needs, i have repeatedly asked him for my property back and my money returned, Every time he has responded with various emails and messages about how nice he is (!? does anyone who is really nice have to say this), without making any effort to inform me what is going on, where my equipment actually is, and requests for the money loaned have been entirely ignored. All i have wanted the entire time is my property and money back, and each contact has been about his life and how hard done by he is.
For over a year Matthew has been torturing me every day by withholding this equipment, this has caused so much distress it has made me extremely ill. I stupidly let him look after some of my professional equipment. There was a computer and I think at least 4 hard drives in there, I let him know there was the backups of all my work on the drives and there was no other copy. I told him how important that was to me and told him to be super careful with it all. I packed it into boxes very carefully because i worry people mishandling the stuff will damage it.
After storing them in an unsecured location without letting me know it was unsecured, he then left it with his sister, who he claims is a ketamine addict. Up until he left it with her, he didnt inform me his room had no lock on it, and he didn’t inform me his sister was in his place, or that she was a ketamine addict.
Upon finding out I panicked. It was highly unsafe to have all of my backups of my lifes work left with an addict in an unlocked room so I immediately tried to arrange a cab to pick it up from there. There was a problem picking it up, the cab driver I sent approached the house and Mr Large wasn’t in as arranged, his flatmate (not his sister) screamed fuckoff out the window at the cab driver. This left me even more worried i couldn’t pick it up but i had been up all night working and i had to go to sleep.
Shortly afterwards, I got a cryptic message where he claimed he was arrested and all my stuff was “seized by police” along with his own stuff – no documentation, no details, no follow-up for weeks. Having my equipment stolen after a whole other bunch of it was stolen by my Scottish BPD friend was traumatic. Every day it is not returned is triggering, reminding me of traumatic times i have lost my equipment before. Its an autistic thing with repetitive trauma and triggering and Ive had to live with it every day since. Mr Large is completely unable to see that, despite me saying it many times, and telling him that i experienced it as torture in June of last year. I am now calling him out publicly and sending this to the pigs. There was no need for it to get this far at all.
He has changed his tune on the equipment a few times, first he had it in a box and it hadn’t been seized, then he couldn’t find it, then finally after constantly asking, he said it was seized and never returned after over a year. In the below communication he claims he still has possession of “new disks” meaning my SSD drives. He also claims that’s obvious, i have no idea why. Today he claimed he never got them back from the pigs at all and offered to call the pigs to get it back, only because I had messaged him. At no time in the last year plus has he bothered to do so and every communication from him is about how nice he is and how he is having a hard time. i have no way of verifying anything he says.
Ok, you want the truth.
All the electronics in my room have been ceased by the police. Your disks and pc included. The new disks obviously not, they’re in a box ready to be removed from my room. The house is being returned to the landlord..
I have nothing until they find nothing incriminating on it and it is returned to me.
I’m on bail with no home or FUCKING ANYTHING and my life is on hold until this shit is over.
Maximum 3 months but could be sooner.
Matthew Large 24/06/2025,
Matthew Large has been accused by his sister of having CP on his computer. His sister also accused his brother of physically abusing her. I believe her but the pigs don’t because she is on ketamine, Im not sure if they considered that the ketamine might have been a coping mechanism. Whatever. Before this happened, I was a good friend to him, He repeatedly “borrowed” money from me and refused to pay it back. I would always give him money even if i had not a lot I would give it to him straight away. Sometimes I gave him more than i had, he never even knew that.
I want all of my money back.
I also Hired Matthew for audio mixing work thinking i was helping him. Upon payment transfer, his response was “thank fuck for that” before spending it on weed. The main problem i had with that was i was releasing it the next day and was up all night doing it. This was the main reason i wanted help. He bailed without any warning or see you later or anything way early. I was left sending “Hello?” messages, interrupting my own focus and work and all his was thrown away.
The session itself: Half-assed work followed by him vanishing mid-track to get dinner without any warning. I got a message saying he was eating, then he never returned to finish and refused to give any money back.
MY EQUIPMENT – 4? SSD DRIVES
Mr Larges brother is called “Boots” and is some kind of security guard who has a lot of guns and was frightened the police would find pictures of them. He was employed by the TV guys Ant and Dec and was witness to one of them doing something so dodgy that he was trying to get money from them to shutup about it (>50k if i remember correctly). I think the one that drinks had sex with a prostitute or some shit or fell off the wagon. I do remember he was in the paper at the time. According to this piece of shit, his brother received all of my stuff, which he has said he couldn’t find and now he says he never had. the conflicting information has caused severe harm. and it has been drip fed over a year.
Today he finally claimed he never had my equipment. What a total piece of shit. He then started saying as usual what a nice person he is and how he would never steal of lose them purposefully, inserting clauses about how if i accused him of anything i could fuckoff, so here I am accusing him of theft. He didnt seem to realise i dont care what kind of person he is i just want my property back. Every single time ive asked for it, hes piled on conflicted information or given hardly any and left me to guess and hope i get it back. He even complained i was harassing him about it, while he has routinely ignored my very carefully explained communication needs, causing me harm every day he has withheld the stuff. He knows that my BPD friend has stolen all of my other stuff too., causing the trigger to be even worse. He doesnt know that ive lost stuff twice before and that it was extremely traumatic and that i am frightened of it happening again.
Instead of returning it all, he did travel to my friends place to drop some stuff off. the PC and two drives came back. I made doubly sure he wouldnt be transporting my equipment on a train by offering to pay travel and leaving expicit instructions not to take it on a train becase of the possibility of data loss. Shortly after that he went there with my pc in a plastic bag, after which it was damaged. He has turned a simple transaction into a year + long nightmare.
He responds to urgent equipment requests every month if you’re lucky – ignores highly distressed requests for returning it. He completely ignores requests for my money back. When he does reply its with monologues about what a difficult life he has and almost no information about what has happened or what he intends to do about it.
Would I recommend matthewlarge.com for professional work? That’s not only a profound no, but I want everyone else to know. I still don’t have my property or my money back and the lack of taking any responsibility for it makes me think he has probably just stolen it and made all this up. He also has accused me of having some delusional conspiracy theory over it and told me he was refusing to give it back because i am going to take legal action once it is back. i am absolutely desperate to get this cunt out of my life.